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ADHD Emotional Reset Card

A short reset card for emotional flooding, shutdown, sensory overload, or fast frustration spikes.

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Who this helps

Adults who need a fast recovery cue before reasoning, explaining, or problem-solving will work.

Use this when

  • Emotional intensity is rising too fast.
  • You are flooded, overstimulated, or close to shutdown.
  • You need a pre-written script instead of improvising under pressure.

How to use the template

  1. Lower sensory input first.
  2. Use one body reset before words.
  3. Name what is happening in neutral language.
  4. Choose one next safe action.
  5. Return to the problem only after intensity drops.

Template prompts

Body reset

My first physical reset is:

Low-input move

I can lower input by:

Neutral label

What is happening is:

Request script

The sentence I can use is:

Next safe action

The next useful move is:

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Common questions

Why use a card instead of remembering coping skills?

During flooding or shutdown, memory and language can get harder to access. A card keeps the first move visible.

Does this replace professional support?

No. It is a practical self-support tool for daily moments, not diagnosis or treatment.

Want the complete system behind this template?

The related John Lindberg book expands this tool into a fuller ADHD system with examples, troubleshooting, and repeatable routines.

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